Talking to a parent about home care can be emotional — but it doesn’t have to lead to conflict. Here are some tips to start the conversation with compassion and clarity:
- Choose the right time and setting – Stay calm and private.
- Focus on their independence – Emphasize how care supports, not replaces.
- Use “I” statements – “I’m worried” instead of “You can’t handle this.”
- Bring in professional advice – Doctors, care advisors, or counselors.
- Let them have a voice – Ask what they want and how they feel.
Remember: You’re not taking away control — you’re offering support. Most seniors feel relieved when they realize help is available on their terms.
